The Dance of Love

The Dance of Love

Are you in a relationship? Are you looking for one? Have you talked to me about it? By using both western astrology and Jyotish, the astrology of India, I can offer a lot of insights into the dynamics of existing relationships and the timing of relationships in general. What kind of insights? you ask…. Well, let me give you some examples.

Several years ago a woman came to me with a worried question about the man who was courting her. She had been single for a long time, and this man was very recently widowed. She was afraid he was on an emotional rebound and didn‘t want to be overly optimistic for the long-term. I looked at his chart, looked at her chart, and looked at their charts together. They were very harmonious. Cycles indicated this man had done his grieving long before his wife died and was serious about this new relationship. Not only did he want to take care of her, to make sure she was financially comfortable and make her happy: He actually wanted to marry her.

My client felt sure marriage was not part of her friend’s plans, so we examined their Indian charts to see. Within just a few months they would simultaneously be in strong marriage cycles. It was beginning to look pretty serious to me. I gave her my estimate of dates., all within less than six months. She left the consultation excited about the relationship, but skeptical about the marriage prediction. About three months later, I was invited to their wedding reception!

Not all stories have such happy endings. Another couple came to me, charming and very much in love. While their relationship was geared to highlighting and healing old wounds, their charts were set up to set off each others‘ insecurities and defensiveness. They are always accidentally hurting each other. They’re married, but it’s terribly difficult.

When you’re first getting to know someone, a relationship analysis is a good way to check out the potential for happiness and any possible pitfalls of a relationship. It can also help two people understand their different points of view and learn to communicate more effectively with each other. Each person who enters our lives is our teacher. Wouldn’t it be helpful to know what to expect?